I paid more for my divorce than I did my marriage. There's irony for you - maybe if I paid more for the marriage, divorce would have been avoided and saved money - I got trashed? Nah - I love my kids but am I'm better off single - can go bush whenever I like - except when saving for kids' weddings. Doh - this thread is doing my head in! Thanks very much vstrom! BTY - all the best for the wedding - I'm sure you're a top pa and thanks to you, they'll both have a great day and a very happy life together!