I have got some good results by leaving rocks in with coarse grit for 7 to 8 days then going straight to fine after a couple of hours in water and dishwashing liquid. I find that the coarse grains break down and are finer than medium after this time. Some plastic beads of various sizes in with the rocks also help polish any concave areas but only use each lot of beads with the same grit as they trap a fair bit in the holes.