Your not a prospecter unless you find the gold yourself through loaming, geology, maps, research and experience.
I personally could not brag about gold or gems that someone else has found or shown the spot to me and claim it was all me. There's nothing more selfish I've ever known apart from when it comes to prospecting. You try to team up, it works for a few days, and if it screws up, they are in your hole the next day that you showed them!? I don't see happiness in that, and if you have to steal other peoples hard earned work because your too lazy, selfish and a thief. But why dig back in the same spot? Just because you know golds there that someone else found and your too lazy to pan yourself to find more?..
I've had spots taken, trashed, equipment stollen, maps, books, tools, my miners right even at a point stollen. I certainly will not accept anyone to dig with me without experience or knowing they are cool, and it's very easy to tell. The greed sparkle in the eye is different than an exited fun sparkle in the eye and its very easy to see.
Its a hard one mate and why I'm taking my absolute time to release any information of my area, and it won't be free. That way I still get something out of it, even if the place gets turned over.
I also don't take people to the "good" spots as like you say, it doesn't take long and its trashed.
If someone shows your their "spot", its usually a very nice gesture to ask if the person who showed you is going there again soon or if you can dig there, rather than just hack at it.
I know that since I've mentioned creeks around here, they have had more activity in the easy access lengths, its very obvious and no one has written me a pm at all. Too rude to even say hello some down there and they probably got the info from me here!
I showed a bloke something I found recently and as he filmed it, he was saying things like " I've found this.." ... Or .. "I've brought my mate along with me.."..
I drove you in my car to a spot that I found in my time, effort and risks! Wtf..he had this instinct which just made him claim it all, with no regard to credit or mention me in any way as he recorded. This blokes done it several times and I've been stupid enough to show him several things.
The best part is though, he's too lazy to go any further with it. He will dig my hole, get bugger all because he doesn't know how to use his sluice, not fill it in, and then complain to me that he's getting no gold at the end of the day, not knowing I watched him dig in my hole again. So then he gives up and waits for me to find more, it took me a while but I caught on and this bloke knows very little about what I know now.
You are not a friend if you threat, yell, steal, intimidate, gossip and backstab.
Sorry guys I had to let out like I was in counselling. There is nothing more that frustrates me and I really really feel your pain HTY, and your efforts, vids and text is remarkable and will always be remembered, ( and i mean you, not your spots ) you need to be credited for it, not a reversal.
Pass it all off and keep truck in, but just be warey of certain people. The dodgy ones all act the same and like I said easy to spot after you meet just one or two.