As the other guys said, propane just doesn't have the temp requirements to melt gold, and to be honest its a good thing, if the flakes had of melted, they would have fuzed to the spoon permanently...
Learned both those things the hard way 8.(
best bet grab ya self a mapgas pro burner from bunnings and a cheap crucibal from fleabay, also grab some borax to mix with the flakes, will stop the flakes from flying out of the crucibal from the pressure of the map gas, learned THAT the hard way too lol