Please don't take any of this as criticism Nugget I am your biggest fan. I am only trying to help you iron out the wrinkles with this.
I also develop websites, iPhone and iPad applications and run my own IT consultancy business.
I may have given you the wrong impression with the shaping. The shaping is my new mobile internet device from Telstra, I am on their top plan 15GB but this thing chews bandwidth as I have my iPhone, iPad and MacBook Air all connected to it so I have one bill fir all my data. So I have about ten days each month where they will shape me. Unfortunately that is their top plan they don't give me an option to buy more, if I could I would.
Anyhow once the forum has finished doing whatever it is doing with the icon toolbar at the top the rest is as it was yesterday quite quick it's just that initial load of the page every time. If I drill into a thread after that it's quite quick.
Here is it running under Google Chrome instead. I normally use Safari. You can see it trying to draw the icons.
https://www.prospectingaustralia.com/forum/img/member-images/1497/1404469579_image.jpg
https://www.prospectingaustralia.com/forum/img/member-images/1497/1404469689_image.jpg
Interestingly under chrome the image upload page doesn't behave as it does under Safari. Safari will insert the image at the point in the text the cursor is on. In Chrome the window remains open and doesn't close or insert the image. The three entries above were cut and pasted from the window one at a time to show you.
Here I will fix the entries so they display:
Also interestingly the edit box behaves differently I don't get the icon toolbar hiding the text like in Safari.
Here's the screenshot of the edit box
https://www.prospectingaustralia.com/forum/img/member-images/1497/1404470217_image.jpg
Fixed version:
Also under Chrome Cut and Paste is showing with the icon toolbar behind it. Like so:
Hope this helps